FeMiNiNe and MaScULine????????????

What can I say????? bwahahahaha..

FiRsTs

FIRSTs are very special...

->First time to walk

------> First time to talk

-----------> First time to go to school

---------------> First time to make friends

-------------------> First time to have a crush

----------------------->First time to date
-------------------------->First time to kiss
----------------------------->First time to fail at something

-----------> so on... and ... so forth

.......... a lot of Firsts that happens in our lives that somehow can never be replaced and sometimes are hard to forget.... and for me, one of the reasons why they are so special is because they are the first step in "change". The truest only constant thing in our lives...

...... Through our "Firsts" we learn and we grow...

Every Firsts has a catalyst...and every Firsts is more memorable when you have somebody to share it with...

.. so to all the people whom I shared my Firsts with and who shared their Firsts with me.....

THANK YOU VERY MUCH

for making my life more colorful!!!!

HiTcHed!!!!!

Another one of us got hitched last July (I know it's bit late just posting this now.... but what can I do... I'm the one-second-delay member of the group.. so here I am... late reaction as usual.... hehehe..)!!!!

so.... back to the topic...

Was just thinking that getting hitched is the major step after building a career, for most of us.. another challenge after experiencing how it feels to earn your own money and survive... so after a hard day @ work... you'll have someone to run to.. someone to share.. someone to take the load off your shoulders... as well as contribute to the challenges of our lives.... spicing up our world so to speak...

... I never thought that Cuzin D would be the next one to walk up the isle.. but lo and behold.. you really never can tell... so the question is.... who's next on the line.... a mystery and a surprise i'll bet..

Me WriTiNg

Lately I've been thinking why I only usually write stuff when I'M sad, lonely, hurt, or feeling some kind of bittersweet happiness.... hhhmmm.. maybe because when I'm happy I'd rather spend time with whatever or whoever is making me happy than spend time writing about it.... I'd rather be busy storing memories in my head.. trying to memorize every little detail... but when feeling down and gloomy... I guess I try to let out through my pen and paper.... that, somehow, I'm letting it flow from my head and out of my system....

A Glimpse of Hope....

...... I really don't care if it's just a brief connection and not a happily ever after kind of a reconciliation...... what matters to me is that after 4months of silence and missing you... you finally said that you miss me too...

..... the only thing that i can say is thank you because even through the silence you still remember me.. that even through the non-communication I think I still have a spot in your life... thanks a lot friend for making me happy and brightening up my day....

.. I wish you all the luck! and please take good care of yourself because even though I don't see you.. I still care for you my friend...

I'll be here waiting...

... I could not understand why you had to detach... you even deleted your connection to us... i know you had tried it before but it was not as bad as now... i tried to ignore the hurt... tried to understand... tried to let you be... I even tried giving up but your too valuable for me to let go... I just can't throw away our seven years of friendship... so I've decided to let you go your own path as you wish... even through the silence I will still be your friend... so whenever you decide to come back, I will be here waiting.. just like before....

JuSt a Thought

Maybe I'm just drunk... maybe I'm not... It's my day off and we just had a couple of rounds... I felt my world spin earlier and stopped... then I had to keep myself awake to wait for my siblings to come home... my nephew is playing and the two friends who are with me already fell asleep... I was browsing through some of my friends' blogs and got to read about long distance relationships....
hhhmmm... "it takes two to tango"yeah I agree... but it's not just with long distance relationships.. Even if it's not a long distance relationship you and your partner should be willing to make ago for it.. to believe in each other.. to believe that it will work... 'coz if you don't, who will?
I'm not an expert on this kind of things... I don't even have the kind of experience to back me up...but hey.. it does not take a genius to figure out that to make things work.. both of you have to be willing to work for it even if you have to do it in different ways...

Gotta go now.. siblings are here... 'til next time then..